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The holidays can be a very stressful time for many of us. We get caught up in the shopping, baking, cooking, decorating, party planning, party attending, and on and on! I can find myself struggling to find joy amongst the stress that the holidays bring.
This season I have made an extra effort to focus on gratitude. Especially finding those small moments that bring joy.
Focusing less on expectations and more on celebrating the small joys, such as a meaningful conversation with my 19-year-old daughter, a high five with my 25-year-old celebrating his success, a video chat with my 23-year-old son that is overseas, the beauty of a new-fallen snow, or blue sky, a delicious meal, a hug.
It sounds cliche, but “There is always something to be thankful for” really is true, even on the most stressful, low energy days.
In November, I actually won a gratitude journal through a contest on Instagram! I graciously received the message, and I have taken heed! I am reaping the benefits of my new journal already.
The journal includes inspiring quotes and challenges along the way. There is also a section in the book where you can write intentional goals for 14 different areas. I haven’t even used this part of the journal yet. But, I am finding that as I take time each day to focus on things that I am grateful for, I have become more aware and in tune to things that I am grateful for and perhaps didn’t give much attention to before.
The act of taking the time and energy to reflect and write in the journal is powerful. I encourage you to try this practice if you haven’t tried it yet. Here is a link to the journal that I am currently using:Â
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If you are struggling to find joy in the holidays or in your everyday life, I encourage you to try a gratitude practice. Find more ways to practice gratitude in Ruth’s Mental Health blog, Colourful Hope. She shares an informative and very beneficial post 5 Easy Ways to Practice Gratitude.
I had heard about using a gratitude journal for years and wanted to try it, but never started a dedicated practice. Having the journal in hand makes it more real for me. I see the journal by my bedside and am reminded to take a few minutes before turning in to reflect and write. It is becoming a part of my life and I see how it is positively affecting my life.
So far the holidays have been less stressful for me as I have put more energy into being grateful and celebrating the small joys of each day.
Do you have a dedicated gratitude practice? If not, what would help you get one started? A new beautiful journal?Â
Thanks for visiting and I hope all your days are filled with joyful moments!
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Anitra
November 25, 2020 9:41 pmI have and use that same journal, and it’s amazing! It’s a great daily reminder to find the good in every day!
Julie
November 26, 2020 10:19 amIt is a great practice, to focus on the good, daily!
Bri
November 25, 2020 9:23 pmIt’s all the TINY, LITTLE things that you think of when you take the time to focus on your gratitude that bring you the most joy. Practicing gratitude opens your mind to see all those little things and to help you focus on them rather than the trivial annoying things that occur in your day to day.
Julie
November 26, 2020 10:21 amI agree totally. Focusing on gratitude helps me to be able to stay in the present moment and not let my mind get caught in worry about the future!
Lauren
November 25, 2020 6:03 pmIsn’t it amazing when we focus on what we are grateful for it softens the struggles and brings joy? I agree it is so important to practice gratitude everyday!
Julie
November 26, 2020 10:24 amI agree wholeheartedly! It is so important to focus on what we are thankful for!
Elle | Mom Life in Pajamas
December 13, 2019 1:04 pmWe can all live healthier lives if we live with a spirit of gratitude.
Julie
December 14, 2019 8:57 pmI am certain this is true!! Thank you for reading and commenting 🙂
Flossie McCowald
December 12, 2019 9:10 pmI haven’t physically written in a gratitude journal lately, but this is something that we are really trying to teach our daughters. Every night at dinner and.or bedtime, we specifically ask them to reflect on all the things they are grateful for in that day. You are right, this is a very important practice!
Julie
December 14, 2019 8:58 pmA wonderful thing to teach your daughters!! Thanks for reading 🙂
Nishtha
November 25, 2020 6:11 pmGratitude journal is so important and makes a huge difference in changing your perspective and being thankful. With both my kids we go the GLAD journal nightly. Having an attitude of gratitude makes all the difference!
Julie
November 26, 2020 10:22 amIt really does change your perspective! This simple practice makes a world of difference!
Sara Mertaban
December 11, 2019 9:13 pmThank you for the reminder to practice being more grateful. I’ve honestly been meaning to start a journal to really assist with that. Thanks again!
Julie
December 12, 2019 9:09 amThe journal really is helpful!! Thanks for reading 🙂
Cindy
November 23, 2019 9:06 pmI love how gratitude shifts perspective and promotes joy! Writing down Daily Gratitudes is an excellent way to raise awareness of all we have to be grateful for.
Julie
November 24, 2019 9:15 amYes! I find since starting a gratitude journal that I am much more tuned in to all there is to be grateful for! 🙂
Jessica
November 22, 2019 7:00 pmLife is finite; we are all imperfect; we should be grateful for every moment!
Julie
November 23, 2019 3:12 pmIndeed! I agree 🙂
Stacy
November 22, 2019 11:55 amI do gratitude in my bullet journal at least weekly!
Julie
November 23, 2019 3:12 pmIt does make a difference! A fantastic practice 🙂
Nicola
December 16, 2018 1:16 pmI love the idea of a gratitude journal! And I love that you won one – congrats!
Nicola
http://nicshealthylife.co.uk
Julie
December 16, 2018 6:43 pmHi Nicola,
I know! It was very exciting to win one. I have been using it faithfully every day so far. It really does help me see all the little things there are to be grateful for, it’s awesome. Highly recommended! Thanks for visiting! 🙂
Sarah
December 3, 2018 1:46 pmGreat idea! I have a slightly different- but kind of the same practice where I write down something I’m grateful for every day. It’s such a great way to enjoy what we have!
Julie
December 3, 2018 5:57 pmHi Sarah,
It is a great practice. I am a believer and now I’m hooked!
Julie
Joan Senio
December 3, 2018 2:55 amHi Julie, Thank you for sharing your thoughts on gratitude! When I take care to record small moments of gratitude my mindset is always so much more peaceful. I go through phases where I do this, and then there are always some times when I seem to get away from it – inevitably, I notice the difference! Winning a gratitude journal — what a great way to receive the message in your life. Thanks again for this post, I enjoyed it very much!
Joan
My Best Friend Adeline
https://kindness-compassion-and-coaching.com
Julie
December 3, 2018 5:56 pmHi Joan!
I was thrilled to win the journal! I took it as a message that this was definitely something I needed to do. 🙂 Having the journal in hand and present is a great physical reminder to reflect and write in it daily. Now I notice how I have the feeling of gratitude more frequently throughout my day. Thanks for visiting!
Julie
Rachael Hope
December 3, 2018 2:01 amHi Julie! I really needed this today. Thank you so much for sharing. Gratitude is so powerful. You have inspired me to start my own gratitude practice. Thank you 🙂 Rach x
Julie
December 3, 2018 5:45 pmHi Rachael! I had been wanting to start one for a while, as I had heard so many good things about it. I have always liked to journal. So when I was gifted with this journal I was so excited to start! Now I’ve been using the journal for 3 weeks and I notice that I am more grateful throughout the day!
Julie
Meagan
December 2, 2018 7:28 pmI’ve been recommended by my therapist to start journaling more about gratitude and this is just another reason to do so. Great post 🙂
Julie
December 3, 2018 5:42 pmHi Meagan,
It seems so simple, yet it is so powerful! I now find myself waking up and feeling grateful for something. For example, I get frequent hormone-related headaches. I felt thankful when I awoke without one! I hope it is helpful to you!
Julie